I just want to say SURVIVE. In everything you have a choice, whether it may be yes or no, good or bad, we all have a choice. I am not a long time blogger but I have seen the world through the eyes of the justice system. I have learned a lot from my years involved the good and the not so good. Now that you have an idea of how I might think, it’s time for me to just say survive.
I, along with many others who have been in a state of mind or state of emotion or even both. Those days when you just feel like a disappointment or feel like you can’t go on any further, In life and be thinking about giving up on your hopes and dreams for one simple reason, selfishness , yes selfishness , you are worth lots more than you think, much more valuable than you realize and you should be amazed by this, we can put ourselves in the worst phase possible by ourselves just by thinking that you or meaningless and you have nothing to offer this world, but I am here to say that you are! and I can prove it to you also, every single thing that you have been through have led you to the very moment whether it’s on your phone or pc maybe a tablet, whatever the device, you are here because a higher being wants you to be able to read this at this very moment. You might think it’s funny but you could have been doing anything, any other thing than what you are doing now or be someplace other than where you are. The universe just wants us to survive no matter what it throws at us.
I have seen many things some would say impossible, but no. You have the internet at the tips of your fingers. Google stories of persons who wanted to take their lives and how successful they are today. They just needed an outlet, a listening ear, someone to genuinely care for them, someone to be there for them when they needed them to be. I say once again to you: survive. Whatever you are thinking, stop and listen to what I am about to say. Take it into consideration and tomorrow morning, get up as early as you can before the sunrise and put your self in a position to see it and tell me if it’s not one of the most beautiful things you have ever seen. If you need help or someone to talk to, seek it, don’t expect people to notice your suffering. You might think they should and so do I, but remember that each person has their own personal problems and sometimes might just be so busy and totally out of it to check on you like they should. I have seen this on the internet someplace and it goes something like this.
The Strong Friend
The strong friend, always around for the weak one but who checks on the strong friend? I always say this is very accurate indeed. We help everyone through their battles and scars and changes, and when you need someone the most no one’s there, but trust me, you are more than capable to start this journey by yourself, and if need be along the way and you need help, seek it! This starts with you. Your mind is yours, control it and don’t let it control you. Every time you’re feeling down, say “not today”. Go get some ice cream, go do something fun and exciting, if you’re religious take a knee and pray. Just do not set your mind on how you’re feeling or it will consume you.
Yes, depression is real and I accept that, but let’s start working on you and start going forward with positives in every . You only have to look hard enough and you will see them. Every situation, everything you’ve been through is what makes you unique. People will always have negatives to say, some people will hate you for no reason, some people will love you and leave you, and you will feel like your world is crumbling. It’s not, it’s falling into place for your journey ahead. In order to be a strong person in this life, you must be able to keep going every time you fail. Keep going, I promise, it will be amazing. Comment below if you’re feeling out of it or comment if you want to share anything else. We all need help sometimes, I hope that you found what you’re looking for in this post.
Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place, and I don’t care how tough you are, it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you hit. It’s about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward; how much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done!